Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Winter Cleaning mini-post

I got rid of three more books. A friend came over, I offered some books to her, and they completely fit some needs that she and her family have at this time. Perfect!

I put another book for sale on Craigslist but am not sure if it will get any interested parties. It's a book focused on a fairly niche market.

But small victories are still victories.

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Mini Mission

Posted by Willow:

At the instigation of Colleen at 365lessthings.com, I gave myself a mini mission for this week and I want to share it with you.

Is your jewelry box overflowing with necklaces and earrings?  Are you like I am, and when you are dressing in the early morning, hurrying to rush out the door, you rummage around in the messy jewelry case looking for the match to the earring you have in your hand and plan to wear because it perfectly matches your outfit of the day?  Maybe we have too much jewelry.

I decided to declutter my jewelry and get rid of the old necklaces and earrings I no longer wear.  Unfortunately, I'm somewhat sentimentally attached to some of the pieces.  This weekend, I hit on  a plan that I think will work to deal with the unwanted, unneeded jewelry.  I pulled a gallon plastic baggie from the kitchen drawer and strategically positioned within easy reach of the jewelry drawer in the bedroom to hold any jewelry I know I don't wish to keep.  I separated the items I know I've worn in the past week--a few sets of earrings and one necklace--and now whenever I choose a different ring, earring or necklace to wear, I place it with the "yes, I've worn it and love it" items.  At the end of a specific period of time (maybe a month?), I'll know with certainty what jewelry I actually wear and what I don't.  I've done this experiment with my clothing and as you can guess, it was an excellent, unbiased exercise in discovering what I really like and wear.  I have a feeling that I will be dropping quite a few pieces into that gallon baggie which will then be placed in the bags reserved for the thrift shop.

Join me in decluttering your jewelry box!

Monday, January 24, 2011

Winter Cleaning, Part 4

I haven't really made that much progress in cleaning, but I want to celebrate the little that I've accomplished.
  • I conquered my hall closet! It used to be an inefficient and disorganized hodge-podge of boxes and random things that I just threw in there when I first moved into the apartment. Now, it holds some well-organized plastic bins of long-term storage, as well as all the large items that I stock in bulk and use all the time (diapers, paper towels, etc.) and my games (readily available to be enjoyed by any guests that we might have in the future).
  • I found my random magazines and put them all together on a shelf, ready to be gone through and then disposed of.
  • I got rid of two magazines already! The break area at work is always full of old magazines, and it turns out that people just bring them in and leave them there once they are done with them, and others can read them there on break or even take them home if desired. I can put some of my magazines there, but I doubt Vogue and wedding magazines will be very popular at a large technical company populated primarily by middle-aged male rednecks.
  • I made chicken-rice stew from scratch! It made me happy just to be cooking (with my crock pot, no less) but it also helped reduce clutter in my kitchen because it called for some items that were about to expire and needed to be used. This was a new recipe, and while it is reasonably tasty, I found it kind of bland and so I will tweak things and adjust it before recommending it to anyone. Note: This is often the case with new recipes.
It does get depressing and overwhelming at times, but I remind myself that I really am doing what I need to do, and it's better to do a thorough job and really go through all those boxes, rather than just keep moving them from place to place and then avoiding them by shoving them out of sight in the bowels of a closet.

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Winter Cleaning, Part 3

The Little Bug has been sick since the weekend, so that has put a damper on my cleaning frenzy. However, I've managed to do a little organization and decluttering.
  • I have given away two books already!
  • I made a pile of items that actually belong to my ex-husband and I'll hand them over to him when he visits in a few weeks.
  • I made a pile of books that I will give away or sell once I have finished reading them. You know those books that are always lying around in boxes or on your bookshelves, and you feel guilty because you spent money on them, or someone gave them to you as a gift, yet you've never actually read them, but you feel as if you can't just get rid of them (because you spend money on them or received them as gifts)? Yes, THOSE books. Well, I've given myself an ultimatum and a deadline. I bought those books, or people gave them to me, for a reason, and that reason is probably that they contain valuable information and I would enjoy reading them. So I'll read them instead of I Can Has Cheezburger sites or something. I'm going to read those books, acquire the knowledge within them, and then send them out into the world to enrich other people's lives. And if I start a book and then realize that I don't like it and don't want to finish it, I've given myself permission to just send that book along on its way. I'm 1/3 of the way through The Crucible of Europe since Sunday.
  • I took two loads of recycling to the bins up in town, working these trips to dovetail with other errands (thus saving time and gas).
Baby steps.

Monday, January 17, 2011

Winter Cleaning, Part 2

The great Winter Cleanse of 2011 continues in my home.

For months, I've been avoiding confronting the huge scary organizational monster in my back bedroom. I have boxes that hadn't been opened or even moved since I took residence in the apartment last April. The sheer volume of stuff was intimidating, and there were also some very emotional issues at work as well, since the vast majority of items in those boxes were relics of my married years. I was tired, overwhelmed... I couldn't face those boxes. It is legitimately VERY DIFFICULT to go through dozens of boxes (not to mention bags and shelves) all by oneself. However, add to the mix a very active and curious toddler who is interested in everything and wants to climb all over everything, and the task is elevated from difficult to nearly impossible.

However, one of my two lifestyle changes for 2011 is "Face Your Fears"* and so on Friday night and much of the day on Saturday, I hauled boxes down and around, opened them, made decisions... My apartment currently looks as if it was attacked by the proverbial tornado, but please believe me when I assure you that progress is being made. I organized books and put them on shelves or back in boxes to wait for further decisions to be made. I identified no fewer than a dozen books that I can give away (I'm a book hoarder, so this is huge for me). I even went through a box of the Little Bug's old things and gleaned a bag of baby clothes for the give-away pile.

Baby steps.

Most importantly, although it may take a while to realize my vision, I have a definite idea of how I want that back room to be organized and utilized as a combined workroom/office and playroom. The room has a southeastern exposure, and in the spring, it will be great to be in there on weekend mornings, with me being productive and creative with the Little Bug playing and learning right next to me.

*The other is "Sleep", which is doing wonders for forcing me to examine my life and my priorities, but that's another story.

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Winter Cleaning

My steps toward organization in my home are baby steps, rather than leaps and bounds. However, as the saying goes, every little bit helps. Rome wasn't built in a day. A journey begins with a single step.

Today, I went through a basket from my kitchen that had become a receptacle for all kinds of paper, but primarily receipts and coupons. I went through the papers and put the vast majority of them into bags for either recycling or shredding. It was a task that had daunted me before I began, but ultimately took me only several minutes, all told.

Lessons learned:
Many household jobs are much less difficult and time-consuming than our reluctant anticipation tells us they will be. So: Just Do It.
Doing just one thing today will make you feel as though you've really accomplished something, which will build your confidence for doing one more thing tomorrow, while also eventually muting that negative little voice in your head.

A wise woman (Willow) once said to me (on the phone today, actually), "If you do just one thing per day, at the end of the year, you've done 365 things!"
I would just like to respond, "That's true, Mom, and may I add that in a leap year, it's 366!"